My sister Katy was named for our aunt, Kathleen O'Brien, who was our mother's best friend and youngest sister. She never married, but she was devoted to my mother and her children. Since her death, Katy has annually hosted "The Grandma and Aunt Katie Haviland China Luncheon" to honor Aunt Katie, our mother, and grandmother. It is a highly anticipated event for me, my daughters, and Katy's friends.